Colleen and our children, Jared, Rachel, and Joshua, say I tend to overthink things. When my wife would point this out, she’d say,  “Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar,” as the semi-old saying goes, and we’d laugh. You would too, if you heard it in her Bronx accent and imitable tone. But to laugh as hard as I do when she says it, you’d probably have to be as in love with her now as you were the moment you laid eyes on her as she sat in the seventh row of Temple Emmanuel on the Upper East Side … Read more